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Erotica Series

Generally speaking I leave one completed series up in addition to my ones in progress, and republish the older ones as novellas on Kindle Direct Publishing/Kindle Unlimited.

Current Series

Hide Your Husbands: The lightly fictionalized story of my slutty, bisexual second divorce rebound. Check out the first installment, I Left My Wife To Fuck Men

A Man And A Bear: The story of two bros who show those feminists on the internet how real men fuck (each other). Check out the first installment, A Man Meets A Bear In The Woods

The Bi Pride Duet (Finished): The story of how a man and a woman got over their divorces with hot bisexual sluttery. Check out the first installment, Tinder Drove Me To Fuck Women

Erotic Novellas

Uptown Rebound: Kaz is in a dark place. Fleeing an abusive marriage, he lives in a mansion in Chicago's Uptown neighborhood with a pair of adulterous lesbians running from their own problems. Then one day, a few minutes of curiously swiping on men leads to a scorching experience with desires Kaz never dared to voice. And the single women of Chicago are lining up to get a taste of the newly confident, bisexually awakened DILF.

The Concubine King: Sirijunga has an easy life as the favorite concubine of his mistress Mikki: he sits on her silk pillow eating snacks while she is out managing her city-state, and when she returns, he rides her until the entire manor hears her shrieks. Then one day the great old king dies, and a plot by scheming nobles puts Sirijunga on the throne of Limbuwan. And there's a catch: Sirijunga is still a concubine, and rules in name only while his vassals bankrupt the kingdom. But there's more than one way to skin a snow leopard. With the help of his cunning mistress, Sirijunga turns the tables on his nobles: the concubine will become the master, and his vassals will each pay their tribute one scorching, heaving tryst at a time.

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Kazmierz Ballaski is my pen name. I write about my life: bisexual, autism spectrum, polyamorous, two kids, two divorces, recovering alcoholic, survivor. I live in Chicago, work in professional politics, and wish I didn’t.